WHY STAY SINGLE?

Relationship is a drag! Especially for a guy who is being single for a very long time, so why even bother entering a relationship that you know will be a drag? Here are some reasons why some guys choose to stay single.

Need to know your every move.

Some girls don't understand that you are not a property to be owned you have your own life and your own free will. So if you are single you can do whatever you want without worrying that you have your girlfriend waiting for you or knowing your every move. It's not that bad that you need to report what you're doing, where you are or who are you with, it's just that girls need to trust us a little bit more, if we already introduce them to our family and circle of friends that means they mean a lot more to us than just girlfriends, it is one of our ways of saying I love you. So we just need a little bit of faith in us that we won't dare cheat on you. 

Less expense and more savings.

Easy enough to explain, no commitment means no date, no date means less expense and less expense can lead for you to more savings.

You will have more time for your family and friends.

If you're not in a relationship you can obviously have more time with the people that matter to you most like your family and friends who you never get to hang out because you need to be with your partner. It it like what they say, you change your priority when you're in a relationship. 

You will also have  time for yourself.

Like I said your priorities change when you're in a relationship so if you're in love with someone you put them at the top of your priority list before yourself. But if your single you get to do things you want for yourself, you can even have your own bucket list if you want. 

You can check on every girl without worrying that someone will be angry at you.

It's not that bad to check on someone if you were only looking, but it's a drag when it starts to become an issue. What is wrong with looking anyway?

So this is some of my reasons why I want to be single. But then again, these things are only reason. So you could definitely say that I'm a coward  because the truth is I still believe that there are ways to make a relationship work.

-Would it kill you to say where you are or what you are doing without her? it's her own way to say that she loves you and she is afraid of losing you because you have her trust and she really trust you it's the people around you that she don't trust.

-In reality expense is a part of everyday living you can still have savings while in a relationship if you really want.

-Treat her as a part of your family and make her belong to your circle of friends in that way she won't feel left out.

-Well, you just need some time for yourself, even in a relationship you should always have time for yourself because if you don't, you will suddenly lose interest in your relationship once you both encounter a problem.

-It's ok to look but never linger or check on.

So to make it short, it is not about the question why, but whether or not you want to stay single regardless of reason.

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