Is It Worth the Risk?

Are you willing to risk everything for the sake of doing one thing that you can never know whether it will turn out to be good or bad?

Blood is still thicker than water. Once a misunderstanding occurred between you and your parents, maybe you can endure not talking to them for a week or two or maybe longer, but that doesn't mean that you don't love them anymore and in time you will approach them again and say that your sorry so the question is will you risk not doing it earlier? What if when the time you realize that you need to speak to them it already too late? What if by that time, even if you say you're sorry, they won't be able to hear it or you can't hug them for the comfort of being forgiven? Would you take that risk because of your so called pride?

As painful as it is for a wife to be cheated by her husband it is also much painful for the child to see that her parents are arguing on something that they can't seem to understand and yet no one is there to explain to him what is going to happen to their life in the end only the child will be the one who will suffer the most. Sad to say what is being shown in some TV series here in the Philippines are stories that focuses on husband/wife having an affair like it is a normal thing here in our country when the fact that it is not. Maybe that is the reason why there are early pregnancy coming from this generation, young and single mothers that being left by their partners for being too young and too naive when it comes to having a family. If you have your own family would you take a risk of losing them just to be with someone whom you just met a while ago? Would you risk losing your family and cheat on your partner to have a cheap meaningless sex?

Nothing last forever than friendship. Relationships may come and go, but friends remain the same  through the end of time. Well, most of it in reality. Because in every rule there is an exemption not all friendships last forever some may end up being an enemy to each other while some remain friends but not as the same as when they were young, can sometimes be not that close or can also be even closer. Change of heart is also inevitable to friendship it is not limited to those couples in a relationship. The question are you willing to risk what you have with your friend if you suddenly have a change of heart? are you willing to be someone closer or someone he/she will hate as an enemy in the long run?

some people say, you wont be able to grow if you dont take some risk in your life. in a sense it can be true in example when it comes to some corporate they always promote those people who are willing to take the risk in improving themselve not only for themselve but also for the sake of the company because that is the only key in surviving in that said world. But, if you only look at it in a positive way taking a risk without knowing whether the result will be good or bad will really help you grow as an individual of the result of the said risk is bad and things went out of your control just close your eyes, breathe, realize what went wrong, apologize, learn from that mistake and try again. Just like my favorite quote from the movie meet the robinsons, "keep moving forward". Because the things that you've done is already in the past there is nothing you can do about it. You already took the risk the only question will it stop you from taking another?

Pros and cons. Risk is like gambling you never know if you will win or lose. But unlike gambling you 60% of risking can sometimes rely on pros and cons, the other 40% is up to you whether you believe in that 60%. I guess some people can say they will just take a little leap of faith and will leave everything to God and believe that whatever it turns out is according to his will. Which is a good mindset. So before taking another big decision in life answer yourself this question first, "is it worth the risk?".


..]\[..bertski